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Wednesday, 9 December 2015

I'M EVE; THIS IS MY LIFE - START WITH THE WEDDING FINGER...


So, it's Friday night and I'm out with my girls, at Be Natural Spa, somewhere in Ikeja. Before we got here, we kept deliberating for several minutes trying to make a choice between storming a night club with all the noise and loud music and we screaming at the top of our voices to talk to one another, or letting off steam in a quiet, serene environment having a massage, facials, mani-Pedi while sipping on a Virgin Mojito. Eventually, we chose the spa.



I idly swirl my drink as I listen to the music of Beyoncé's drunken love playing from the sound system positioned somewhere in the building.
 It had been a hectic week, with a new GM joining the organisation and as usual, he wanted to prove he's worth his fat pay.
Sometimes I wonder why we always try to over impress during our initial days or weeks of employment. We subsequently loose the zeal and passion few months afterwards. Aisha has a word she uses to describe such action, “Show thy self”.
I smile as I remember the way she positions herself with her knees slightly apart, her shoulder raised high and a bit arched that you think she has a bit of a hunch back, while trying to mimic the behaviours of those in the act of “Show thy self”.
Lost in my thought I suddenly hear a voice say “You look like you're enjoying your drink.” in a rich, velvet tone. I turned to see a dark chocolate man, about 6ft tall, maybe in his late 30s, I carry out a quick check on him (No, not on google. Lol!).
 I stare at him for about 10 seconds trying to figure him out quickly before I make a decision to respond with a warm, receptive smile or make that face that says “back-off”.
You might reasonably assume that I'll start from his shoes, then his watch, his phone, his gait and maybe try to catch a spoor of his perfume. But no, it's from the wedding ring finger to the shoes, then up again.
His finger had no ring or sign of it… unmarried I presumed.
“Hi” I respond with a smile. “It's relaxing”.
 “Okay then” he responds “can I buy you another”.
I didn't want him to see me as cheap so I say, “Nah, I think I've had enough.” He takes a seat beside me and we engage in small talks, afterwards we exchange d numbers and said our good byes.
On my way home after about an hour and a half at the spa, caught up in a little traffic around Isaac John, I recollect my conversation with Obi – the guy from the spa, and the things I noticed while we talked. He had a Bvlgari Diagono Chronograph on and he looked charming in his Calvin Klein shirt paired with a black trousers and a pair of coffee brown Brioni shoes. Hmm!

You see I love life, and it's easy to think I'm like those “runs babe” on social media, as my desire to live life is mistaken for being shallow minded and materialistic. I work hard, very hard and I deserve to enjoy the good things of life. Oh well!
My name is Evelyn Opara, My friends call me Eve, I am a single woman in my mid-20s and this is my life.

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